What Would You Do If You Learned Your Significant Other Was Having An Affair?

Yep, that's our burning question of the month! What would you do if you learned your significant other was having an affair? Would you try to win your loved one back? Have an affair yourself? Exact a terrible vengeance with a blunt object - or something sharp? Or perhaps, just seek counseling...? Let's hear what you'd do!

Comments

[Leslie]

This is quite a thought-provoking question! I certainly hope I never have to face it, as I imagine it's one of the most heartbreaking, lonely feelings in the world. But, I would have to confront him right away - I absolutely couldn't function with this constantly on my mind. I believe I would listen to what he has to say but would want to go through this with a trained counselor. I have a good marriage and would want to save it and I know I couldn't do it alone. I hope he would feel the same way and agree to go to counseling with me.

[Mindy]

I can't imagine continuing to live with a man who cheated on me. My husband and I have a pretty good marriage. Our kids are gone now so it's just the two of us. I love him but wouldn't have any respect for him - ever again - if I found out he cheated on me. I gave him my good years, worked hard to make a nice home. Hopefully, I wouldn't be one of those women that take out their husband's windshields with a baseball bat. But - I'd consider it! If you're reading this, Dear, don't even think about it!